Emotional Intimacy Assessment

Do you feel truly connected?

In my practice, I often see couples who feel disconnected or lonely, even though they love each other deeply. They aren't fighting; they are simply losing the sense of emotional intimacy that makes a marriage feel like home. Many feel more like roommates than lovers.

Research by Dr. Sue Johnson has shown that the "heartbeat" of a secure relationship depends on three specific qualities:

• Accessibility: Can I reach you? Do I feel like a priority to you?

• Responsiveness: Can I rely on you to care about my feelings?

• Engagement: Do I know that you value and cherish me above all others?

Take the 2-minute assessment below. After you submit your answers, I will email you your scores and a review of where your relationship stands today.